Also I have heard that bilstein will raise the ride height even after the car is settled and it will ride stiff (something I do not really desire)
Here's the story on the "Bilstein's raise the ride height" legend.
The Bilstein shocks generate an upward force on the car (in my case, the Z51 spec shocks generated about 70 pounds of force straight out of the box). If your old Bilsteins are worn, then one of the symptoms of that wear is that the shocks begin to lose some of that force, and the car settles down. In my case, the Bilsteins I removed were only generating about 40 pound of upward force to the car.
When I initially measured ride height (before I started replacing anything), the car was sitting between 27.375" to 27.75". When I was done, the ride height was close to 29 inches! However, after a quick 20 mile exercise, the ride height was a uniform 28" at each corner. I'm convinced the minor height change was due to the difference in force between the old shocks and the new ones. Here's a link to my thread about the Bilstein installation ...
http://www.digitalcorvettes.com/forums/showthread.php?t=75341
It boils down to your choice. If you want the Monroe shocks, then get them. There are folks out there that like them (see above), and it may be the right choice for you, too.
Good luck!
Steven