You definitely have problems with the electronics on the car. Sounds like you need a specialist. This is absolutely not normal; it is clear that there is some kind of error, and all functions do not work correctly. This is very dangerous on the road because such a mistake can lead to disaster. The specialist should check everything and advise you on what to do or correct this error yourself. Of course, the problem could also be in the headlights themselves, but this is unlikely. I had a problem with the lighting on my car. After replacing all the lighting with products from
vont.com, everything worked without problems. However, it looked very different than yours.